Mrs. Dorothy Ann Neeley, aged 98, leaves behind a remarkable legacy that spans nearly a century. Born on December 11, 1927, in Jefferson City, Missouri, she was the daughter of Louis and Veronica (Bax) Gerling, one of 11 siblings in a loving household. Growing up in Jefferson City, Dorothy attended St. Peter’s Catholic School, where she laid the groundwork for her character—one marked by responsibility, strength, and enduring resilience.
On August 21, 1948, Dorothy married Robert L. Neeley, marking the beginning of a loving partnership that would last for 66 years. Their home radiated warmth and laughter, punctuated by Dorothy’s witty humor and a motherly touch. Often, her sharp yet subtle sarcasm caught people by surprise, showcasing her unique way of engaging the world around her. Her patience and strong spirit undoubtedly proved invaluable as she navigated through Robert’s many adventurous ideas.
Dorothy’s professional journey was rooted in telecommunications, where she dedicated almost 40 years as a telephone operator with Capital City Telephone Company, known today as CenturyLink. She retired in 1986 from her role as Group Chief Operator, a position that highlighted her leadership, reliability, and exceptional interpersonal skills.
Following her retirement, the couple embarked on a new adventure, moving to Las Vegas, Nevada. There, they embraced a vibrant lifestyle that many could only dream of. Dorothy’s career continued in the casino industry, working in the “Soft Count” room at various prestigious establishments like the Gold Strike Hotel and Casino, the Nevada Landing Casino, and the Monte Carlo Casino. This secure room is reserved for only the most trusted and honest employees, reflecting Dorothy’s integrity. Daily, she counted hundreds of thousands of dollars in cash, showcasing her trustworthiness and meticulous nature.
A self-proclaimed “gambler,” Dorothy found a joyful escape in playing video poker, particularly her favorite game, “Deuces Wild.” To her, these casino trips provided much-needed therapy, filled with the thrill of chance. Remarkably, she celebrated her 98th birthday with a final trip to “The Boat,” where she relished a winning experience surrounded by friends and family.
Health and fitness were important to Dorothy, evident through her commitment to exercise. She diligently attended Curves gym for over 1,000 workouts, later transitioning to Planet Fitness with the same enthusiastic spirit. Her commitment to fitness served as an inspiring reminder to everyone around her that age is merely a number. Until the age of 96, she drove independently and made regular 110-mile round trips to “The Boat,” proudly receiving her first speeding ticket at 91—a testament to her zest for life.
Dorothy’s life was also enriched by music and cinema. She cherished classic movies, especially the works of Judy Garland and Shirley Temple, often reminiscing about the days she could scrape together enough change for a ticket. Her playlist included greats like Patsy Cline, Willie Nelson, and Brooks & Dunn, which made every car journey a sing-along experience. She was also devoted to her favorite television shows, with highlights including “The Price is Right” and “Jeopardy.” A staunch supporter of sports, she rooted for both the Kansas City Chiefs and the St. Louis Cardinals, sharing her passion with those around her.
Simple joys filled Dorothy’s days. Morning rituals included coffee paired with two Nutter Butters, watching Cardinals flutter outside her kitchen window, and cooking for her family—where love was always the main ingredient. Her spirit of wonder extended to her Sunday mornings as she searched the sky for angels among the clouds. Dorothy’s eclectic angel collection mirrored her big heart and the warmth she brought into others’ lives.
As a grandmother, Dorothy took her role seriously, showering her grandchildren with love and teaching them the importance of affection. Her “World Famous” apple dumplings became a culinary hallmark of her love, connecting family traditions with the joy of sharing.
Dorothy’s profound impact will be felt long after her passing. She instilled laughter, wisdom, and love into the lives she touched. Her spirit of generosity will continue to resonate with those fortunate enough to have known her, leaving behind a legacy woven with strength, humor, and heartfelt connections.
Survived by her three sons—Robert L. Neeley Jr., William Neeley, and Edward Neeley—two daughters, Kay Twehous and Debbie Neeley, alongside seven grandchildren and numerous great-grandchildren, Dorothy’s family will ensure that her spirit lives on. She was preceded in death by her husband Robert, her parents, and nine siblings.
Dorothy’s life will be celebrated on January 19, 2026, at Freeman Mortuary, where friends and family will gather to honor her incredible journey. Memorial contributions in her name are suggested to Shriners Children-St. Louis, a fitting tribute to her generous spirit.